[AusNOG] Sexual harassment in our industry.

Wed Oct 3 13:29:48 EST 2018

Benno,

As I mentioned on the backlash – here it is…

You see my response as not very positive or helpful – I think that is quite sad really.

“White dude” – well ½ of that is right… I am actually TSI. I would NEVER want to be selected/hired/elected based on this. To the point its why I never include it on any application forms, not because im ashamed of who am I, but because I want to be selected on merit…

The difference between my post and Mark’s post was he was offering help to the victim, I am offering my thought/advice on a selection/election to a board. I can see how you got these confused.

I really hope there is full representation on any board, job, industry, etc. I guess I wasn’t clear enough the first time – Do it on merit. If that means on my next job interview I get pipped at the post by a more qualified female/different ethnicity/religion person/pigeon then great. Its what I want. Equality – real equality; not the quota kind.

James Troy

Senior Systems Administration

From: AusNOG <ausnog-bounces at lists.ausnog.net> On Behalf Of Benno Rice
Sent: Wednesday, 3 October 2018 1:21 PM
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Subject: Re: [AusNOG] Sexual harassment in our industry.

So I, too, am a lurker on this list. Hell, I don’t even run any networks besides my home one, haven’t done for ages.

That said I, too, have been watching this with interest and I’ve seen two responses, well one response, and one class of responses, that I find interesting.

On the one hand, you’ve got stuff like James here. James is running the exact same set of arguments that you normally get from, generally, white dudes that feel threatened by any attempt to address the systemic problems we have in society in general and tech in particular. Yes, yes I know they don’t believe that those problems are there but, well, whatever. I saw similar from Noel Butler and from Matthew Young up-thread. All of these tend to come across as a knee-jerk reaction against the notion that we might actually do something.

On the other hand we had Mark Newton’s “What I can do to help.” post. Instead of a knee-jerk reaction against doing something, he put forward a completely reasonable set of steps that he promised to do if someone were to come forward. Hell, his set of steps form a pretty good basis for the enforcement process of a Code of Conduct.

One of these messages was positive and valuable. The others were very much not.

Cheers,

              Benno.

On 3 Oct 2018, at 12:57, James Troy <james.troy at agilityapplications.com <mailto:james.troy at agilityapplications.com> > wrote:

Ive long been a member of Ausnog mailing list, I find the information that is often posted here to be quite valuable; I have also been watching this thread with a particular keen interest.

Particularly as I was waiting to see how long the #MeToo and ‘gender diversity’ was going to get pushed.

Firstly let me say, any assault, sexual or otherwise is not acceptable. Yes IT as an industry is over-represented by males; however to second you start to include someone in something like a board selection based solely on their genitalia is the second you loose any credibility. I wholy subscribe to the idea of the ‘best person for the job’

If that means 25% of one gender and 75% of another then fine, they are all selected on their merits.

Anything short of selection based on merits (ie: Gender) opens an entirely different can. Ie: is there someone of Asian/African/Australia/aboriginal/TSI background? No? wow wouldn’t that be racist?

Suddenly people talk gender and its acceptable.

I believe that IT, Along with many industries still has a long way to go to be fully inclusive of all participants, regardless of race/religion/gender/background – but selection based on gender, percentages, inclusion policies is _not_ the way to get the recognition that some hard-working people deserve. If I worked in a female dominated industry (teaching, midwifery, childcare, etc) I would want to be selected for something like this based on my work ethics, input, and recognition – not simply to be the token male. 

We as an industry – and as humans – should be there to support our colleagues when they get targeted and victimised, however I also agree that if an accusation is made, and reported to the ‘other company’ then it should also be accompanied with proof – too often we are seeing the #MeToo being used as a weapon to destroy people – predominately men – without a shread of proof.

I do however agree that an ausnog post is not the correct forum for that proof and that is best handled between the direct parties – it was suggested at the CEO level – this protects the victim, the *Alleged* (I use this term deliberately as until it is proof we have due process – innocent until PROVEN guilty – same as the media reporting on items that are before the courts.) aggressor until a chain of evidence can be established and only then actioned upon.

Im sure I will cop back-lash on this, virtue signalling and all…

James Troy

Senior Systems Administration

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Subject: Re: [AusNOG] Sexual harassment in our industry.

On Wed, 3 Oct 2018 at 14:59, Matthew Young < <mailto:matt at mattyoung.net.au> matt at mattyoung.net.au> wrote:

“While we're at it though, there needs to be female representation on the Ausnog board.” 

People should be appointed based on their merits, not based on their gender.

Show me a man with a bias-free recruitment/selection process, and I’ll show you a deluded patriarchal fool.

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Subject: Re: [AusNOG] Sexual harassment in our industry.

"Seems you've never been to a meeting."

The verity of this statement cannot be overexaggerated.

Kind regards

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Paul Wilkins

On Tue, 2 Oct 2018 at 17:42, Mark Smith < <mailto:markzzzsmith at gmail.com> markzzzsmith at gmail.com> wrote:

On Tue, 2 Oct 2018 at 16:50, Paul Wilkins < <mailto:paulwilkins369 at gmail.com> paulwilkins369 at gmail.com> wrote:
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> The need for a Code of Conduct has been raised and it's a good point.
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> While we're at it though, there needs to be female representation on the Ausnog board. I see where there's 5 directors been appointed, and they're all men. I'm wondering who is doing the appointing.
>

Seems you've never been to a meeting. That's covered in the closing session.

> That they couldn't find a woman up to the required standard gives rise to an unfortunate impression of the board acting as a boy's club.
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> Kind regards
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> Paul Wilkins
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> On Tue, 2 Oct 2018 at 16:10, David Hughes < <mailto:david at hughes.com.au> david at hughes.com.au> wrote:
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>> We thank Bevan for raising this important issue and bringing it to our attention.
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>> This is a complex situation and we take any allegation of this nature very seriously.  We hope to discuss this further with those concerned in an attempt to establish specifics, while maintaining the confidentiality of all parties.  If there are any actionable details we will offer assistance to the party involved if they wish to escalate the matter further.
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>> Even though issues regarding the behaviour of delegates at our events have never been raised with us, we want our attendees to feel safe and supported.  We have commenced a review of policies and processes from other organisations and will work with our solicitors to draft a policy suitable for AusNOG events and mailing lists.
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>> The organisers of AusNOG believe that behaviour of this nature is not acceptable at any conference, function, or workplace in our industry.  We will attempt to engage the leaders of our industry to push for a broader solution.
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